From the Research
Feederism is a psychological condition where individuals derive pleasure from feeding their partner to the point of weight gain or obesity, and it is considered a form of sexual fetishism rather than a formally recognized psychiatric disorder in diagnostic manuals. This behavior can become problematic when it leads to health complications from excessive weight gain or when it involves coercion or manipulation. The psychological roots of feederism may relate to control dynamics, nurturing instincts gone awry, or specific sexual arousal patterns connected to weight gain 1.
Key Characteristics of Feederism
- The "feeder" experiences sexual gratification from the act of feeding and watching their partner gain weight
- The recipient (sometimes called a "feedee") may participate willingly due to their own enjoyment or to please their partner
- This behavior can lead to health complications from excessive weight gain or involve coercion or manipulation
Therapy Approaches
- Cognitive behavioral therapy to address underlying thought patterns
- Relationship counseling to establish healthier dynamics between partners
- Addressing the psychological roots of feederism, such as control dynamics or specific sexual arousal patterns connected to weight gain 2
Importance of Addressing Feederism
- Recognizing the potential harm of feederism, particularly when it leads to health complications or involves coercion or manipulation
- Providing effective treatments that address the underlying psychological issues, such as depressive and anxiety symptoms, interpersonal sensitivity, and ineffectiveness 3
- Supporting individuals in developing healthier relationships with food and their bodies, and promoting a positive body image 4