What is the diagnosis for a spouse exhibiting manipulative and controlling behavior, obsessive-compulsive traits, lack of intimacy, demanding nature, excessive spending, hysterical episodes, and refusal to work?

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Differential Diagnosis

The spouse's behavior exhibits a complex array of symptoms that could be indicative of several psychiatric and personality disorders. Here's a differential diagnosis organized into categories:

  • Single Most Likely Diagnosis

    • Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD): Characterized by a pervasive pattern of instability in interpersonal relationships, self-image, and affects, and marked impulsivity. The manipulative, controlling, and hysterical behavior, along with a lack of intimacy and excessive spending, are common traits seen in individuals with BPD.
  • Other Likely Diagnoses

    • Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD): The controlling and manipulative behavior, along with a lack of intimacy and excessive spending, could also be indicative of NPD. Individuals with NPD often have an inflated sense of self-importance and a deep need for admiration, which might manifest as demanding behavior.
    • Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder (OCPD): The obsessive-compulsive traits mentioned could suggest OCPD, characterized by a preoccupation with orderliness, perfectionism, and control. However, the presence of other symptoms like hysteria and lack of intimacy might suggest a more complex diagnosis.
    • Histrionic Personality Disorder (HPD): The hysterical behavior and excessive attention-seeking could be indicative of HPD. Individuals with HPD often exhibit rapidly shifting and shallow expressions of emotions and use their appearance to draw attention to themselves.
  • Do Not Miss Diagnoses

    • Bipolar Disorder: The excessive spending and hysterical behavior could be indicative of a manic or hypomanic episode, suggesting bipolar disorder. It's crucial to assess for a history of mood episodes to rule out this diagnosis.
    • Substance Use Disorder: The lack of intimacy, manipulative behavior, and excessive spending could be exacerbated or caused by substance use. It's essential to screen for substance use disorders.
    • Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD): Traumatic experiences could contribute to the development of manipulative and controlling behaviors as a coping mechanism. Assessing for a history of trauma is vital.
  • Rare Diagnoses

    • Factitious Disorder: The spouse's behavior could be a fabrication or exaggeration of symptoms for attention and sympathy, suggesting factitious disorder. However, this would be less likely given the complexity and range of symptoms described.
    • Munchausen Syndrome by Proxy: If the spouse is fabricating or inducing illness in another person (e.g., a child) to gain attention and sympathy, this could be considered. However, there's no direct indication of this in the provided information.

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