How Long After HSV Lesion is Present Can Someone Kiss Safely
You should avoid kissing until the herpes simplex virus (HSV) lesion is completely healed with a well-adherent scab, with no moist or draining areas present. 1, 2
Timeline for Safe Kissing After HSV Lesion
The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention and sports medicine guidelines provide clear recommendations regarding HSV lesions and close contact:
Active lesion phase (unsafe for kissing):
- When lesions first appear
- When lesions are moist, weeping, or draining
- When systemic symptoms are present (fever, malaise)
Safe to resume kissing when:
Antiviral Medication Considerations
Taking antiviral medication can help speed healing and reduce the infectious period:
- If on appropriate systemic antiviral therapy (acyclovir, valacyclovir, famciclovir), you should still wait until lesions are completely healed before kissing 1
- Valacyclovir is not a cure for cold sores, and contact should still be avoided when lesions are present 3
- Early treatment at the first sign of a cold sore (tingling, itching, burning) can reduce the duration of the outbreak 2, 3
Important Prevention Measures
To reduce transmission risk:
- Avoid oral contact with others while lesions are present 2
- Do not share items that contact the mouth (utensils, cups, lip balm) 2
- Inform close contacts about HSV status 2
- Remember that asymptomatic viral shedding can still lead to transmission, though the risk is highest when lesions are present 2, 4
Common Pitfalls to Avoid
- Don't rely on covering the lesion: Covering active lesions does not make kissing safe 1
- Don't assume medication makes immediate contact safe: Even while on antiviral therapy, you should wait until lesions are completely healed 1, 3
- Don't mistake "improving" for "healed": Partial healing is not sufficient - lesions must be completely dry with a firm scab 1, 2
- Don't ignore prodromal symptoms: Tingling or burning sensations can indicate an impending outbreak, and kissing should be avoided even at this early stage 2, 3
Following these guidelines will help minimize the risk of transmitting HSV through kissing and other forms of close contact.