Treatment for Obsessive Thoughts About Spousal Infidelity
For a patient experiencing obsessive thoughts about their spouse cheating, an SSRI at higher-than-depression doses is the recommended first-line pharmacological treatment, with fluoxetine 20-80 mg/day or sertraline 50-200 mg/day being the most evidence-based options. 1
First-Line Medication Options
SSRI Treatment
SSRIs require higher doses for OCD than for depression:
Important SSRI considerations:
- Allow 8-12 weeks at maximum tolerated dose to determine efficacy 1
- Clinical improvement typically begins by week 6, with maximal improvement by week 12 1
- Morning administration is recommended for once-daily dosing 2
- For doses above 20 mg/day, consider once-daily (morning) or BID (morning and noon) scheduling 2
Treatment Algorithm
Start with SSRI monotherapy:
- Begin with fluoxetine 20 mg/day or sertraline 50 mg/day
- Titrate up every 2-4 weeks as tolerated
- Target OCD-specific doses (higher than depression doses)
- Continue for at least 8-12 weeks at maximum tolerated dose before determining efficacy
If partial response after adequate trial:
- Option A: Increase SSRI dose if not at maximum
- Option B: Add augmentation therapy (see below)
If inadequate response to first SSRI:
Augmentation Strategies for Partial Response
If the patient shows partial response to SSRI therapy, consider these evidence-based augmentation options:
Antipsychotic augmentation:
Glutamatergic agents:
Monitoring and Side Effects
- Monitor for suicidal ideation, especially in the first months and after dose adjustments 1
- Watch for behavioral activation/agitation, which is more common in anxiety disorders 1
- Common side effects of fluoxetine include insomnia, headache, and diminished libido 1
- For persistent insomnia, consider adding mirtazapine, trazodone, or short-term use of lorazepam or zolpidem 1
Common Pitfalls to Avoid
- Inadequate dosing: OCD requires higher SSRI doses than depression 1, 5
- Premature discontinuation: Allow sufficient time (8-12 weeks) at therapeutic doses 1, 6
- Failure to recognize partial response: Consider augmentation strategies rather than switching medications immediately 1
- Insufficient maintenance treatment: Continue treatment for 12-24 months after achieving remission 1
Complementary Approaches
- Cognitive-behavioral therapy with exposure and response prevention (CBT-ERP) has larger effect sizes than pharmacological therapy alone and can be used in combination with medication 1
- Regular physical activity may provide additional benefits 1
- Addressing social isolation through support groups may be beneficial 1
The obsessive thoughts about spousal infidelity may represent a form of OCD, and the treatment approach should follow established OCD pharmacotherapy guidelines with higher SSRI doses than typically used for depression.