What is the best approach for a doctor to deliver bad news to patients and their relatives?

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Effective Strategies for Delivering Bad News to Patients and Relatives

When delivering bad news to patients and their relatives, doctors should apply a universal precaution approach, recognizing that any medical information has the potential to be perceived as bad news, and should address the varying needs of all participants in the interaction through a structured yet flexible approach. 1

Preparing the Environment and Yourself

  • Ensure uninterrupted time and a private location for the discussion to create a sense of safety and emotional security 1, 2
  • Mentally prepare yourself for the conversation, recognizing that these interactions are inherently complex and emotionally challenging 1
  • Understand that most patients will be accompanied by family members or companions who will actively participate in the conversation 1

Structured Approach to Delivering Bad News

Beginning the Conversation

  • Start by orienting the patient and family to what will be discussed: "I have your test results and I'd like to go over them with you if that's okay" 1
  • Assess what the patient and family already know and what they want to know: "Please tell me what you understand about your condition so far" or "What have other clinicians told you about your situation?" 1
  • Determine information preferences from all participants in the room, not just the patient 1

Delivering the Information

  • Use simple, jargon-free language tailored to the patient's educational level 1, 3
  • Provide information in small, digestible chunks rather than overwhelming the patient with too much information at once 1
  • Adjust your pace to the patient's reactions, allowing time for processing each piece of information 1
  • Clearly explain relationships between different pieces of information to help patients understand the complete picture 1
  • Check for understanding frequently using the "teach back" method: "In your own words, what does this mean to you?" 1

Responding to Emotions

  • Acknowledge and name emotions when patients or family members display them: "You seem sad today" or "Help me understand how you're feeling about what we discussed" 1
  • Be cautious about providing additional information when patients are in a highly emotional state, as they may have difficulty processing new information 1
  • Explore what's behind strong emotions: "Tell me what you are worried about" or "What has been the hardest part of all this for you?" 1
  • Use partnership and supporting statements: "I want to make sure we do everything we can to get you the best outcome" 1

Managing Family Dynamics

  • Recognize that companions often ask more questions than patients (research shows 62% of questions come from companions versus 38% from patients) 1
  • Address the varying needs of all participants in the interaction, not just the patient 1
  • Be prepared for potential conflicts between family members' wishes and patient preferences 1
  • When eliciting information about previous knowledge or desire for information, attempt to get input from each participant in the room 1

Common Pitfalls to Avoid

  • Don't assume the conversation will follow a linear script - be prepared to adapt to the nonlinear, unscripted nature of these interactions 1
  • Avoid information overload by breaking information into manageable pieces 1, 4
  • Don't rely solely on medical jargon; explain terms when they must be used 1
  • Avoid making assumptions about what constitutes "bad news" for a particular patient - what seems minor to you may be devastating to them 1
  • Don't rush through the conversation; allow adequate time for questions and emotional processing 2, 3

Follow-up and Support

  • Conclude by summarizing key points and identifying clear next steps 1, 3
  • Assure patients and families that you will be available to answer questions in the future 1
  • Document the conversation thoroughly, including who was present, what was discussed, and any decisions made 3
  • Engage in self-reflection after difficult conversations to improve your approach for future interactions 3

By following these guidelines while remaining flexible to the unique needs of each patient and family, doctors can deliver bad news in a way that maintains trust, supports emotional coping, and preserves hope while being honest about the medical situation 1, 4.

Professional Medical Disclaimer

This information is intended for healthcare professionals. Any medical decision-making should rely on clinical judgment and independently verified information. The content provided herein does not replace professional discretion and should be considered supplementary to established clinical guidelines. Healthcare providers should verify all information against primary literature and current practice standards before application in patient care. Dr.Oracle assumes no liability for clinical decisions based on this content.

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