What questions should be asked during a 3-year-old well-child exam for a new patient?

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Key Questions for a 3-Year-Old Well-Child Exam (New Patient)

For a comprehensive 3-year-old well-child exam for a new patient, healthcare providers should ask specific questions about development, behavior, safety, and family concerns to identify potential health issues early and provide appropriate interventions.

Medical and Developmental History

  • Ask about birth history, past hospitalizations, surgeries, and any known medical conditions 1
  • Inquire about current medications, allergies, and immunization status 1
  • Ask parents: "Is there anything your child is not doing that you think he or she should be able to do?" to identify potential developmental concerns 2
  • Ask: "Is there anything your child is doing that you are concerned about?" to identify potential coordination or movement issues 2
  • Ask: "Is there anything your child used to be able to do that he or she can no longer do?" to identify potential regression of skills 2
  • Inquire about the child's ability to follow objects with their eyes, maintain fixation, and visual tracking abilities 2

Family and Social History

  • Ask about family composition, including who lives in the home and recent changes in family structure 3
  • Inquire about family history of eye disorders or early childhood use of glasses in parents or siblings 2
  • Ask: "Has anything scary or concerning happened to you or your child since the last visit?" to screen for potential trauma exposure 2
  • Assess for family stressors that might impact the child's development and well-being 3

Vision and Hearing Assessment

  • Ask parents about any observations regarding the quality of the child's vision and eye alignment 4
  • Inquire about the child's response to sounds and language development 4
  • Ask about any concerns regarding the child's ability to see or hear 2

Tobacco and Environmental Exposures

  • Ask: "Does anyone who provides care for your child smoke?" 2
  • Ask: "Does your child visit places where people smoke?" 2
  • Ask: "Does anyone ever smoke in your home?" 2
  • Ask: "Does anyone ever smoke in your car?" 2
  • Ask: "Do you ever smell smoke from your neighbors in or near your home or apartment?" 2
  • Inquire about potential exposure to electronic nicotine delivery systems (vaping) 2

Nutrition and Growth

  • Ask about diet and nutrition patterns, including typical meals, snacks, food preferences, and any allergies or intolerances 3
  • Inquire about feeding habits, including appetite, picky eating, and mealtime behaviors 1
  • Ask about juice and sugar-sweetened beverage consumption, which should be limited in young children 1

Sleep Patterns

  • Ask about sleep duration, bedtime routines, and any sleep disturbances 3
  • Inquire about difficulties falling or staying asleep, snoring, or bedwetting 3

Behavior and Social Development

  • Ask about the child's ability to communicate needs and wants 1
  • Inquire about play behaviors, including imaginative play and interaction with other children 1
  • Ask about toilet training status and any challenges 1
  • Ask about behavior management challenges and discipline approaches 3

Safety Assessment

  • Ask about home safety measures, including smoke detectors, carbon monoxide detectors, and gun safety if applicable 3
  • Inquire about car safety seat use and positioning (should remain rear-facing until at least 2 years of age) 1
  • Ask about supervision during bathing and around water 3
  • Inquire about childproofing measures in the home 3

Screen Time and Media Use

  • Ask about screen time habits, including television, computer, video games, and mobile devices 3
  • Inquire about parental monitoring of media content 3

Dental Health

  • Ask about dental care routines, including tooth brushing frequency and fluoride use 1
  • Inquire about dental visits and any concerns about teeth or oral health 1

Special Considerations

  • For children with chronic conditions, ask specific questions about symptom management and impact on daily activities 3
  • Consider using standardized screening tools to identify potential developmental or behavioral concerns 2

Remember that a 3-year-old child should be able to engage in the examination process with appropriate preparation. Explaining procedures in simple, age-appropriate language and offering praise for cooperation will help facilitate a successful examination 2.

References

Research

Well-Child Visits for Infants and Young Children.

American family physician, 2018

Guideline

Guideline Directed Topic Overview

Dr.Oracle Medical Advisory Board & Editors, 2025

Guideline

Comprehensive Well-Child Visit for 8-Year-Olds

Praxis Medical Insights: Practical Summaries of Clinical Guidelines, 2025

Guideline

Vision, Hearing, and Developmental Assessment in 2-Month-Old Infants

Praxis Medical Insights: Practical Summaries of Clinical Guidelines, 2025

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This information is intended for healthcare professionals. Any medical decision-making should rely on clinical judgment and independently verified information. The content provided herein does not replace professional discretion and should be considered supplementary to established clinical guidelines. Healthcare providers should verify all information against primary literature and current practice standards before application in patient care. Dr.Oracle assumes no liability for clinical decisions based on this content.

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