Initial Approach to Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder in Men in Their 40s
The initial approach to HSDD in men in their 40s should begin with lifestyle modification (smoking cessation, weight loss, increased physical activity, reduced alcohol) combined with screening for testosterone deficiency and psychological factors, followed by testosterone replacement therapy if morning total testosterone is <300 ng/dL, or referral to mental health professionals with sexual health expertise for psychotherapy when testosterone is normal. 1
Comprehensive Assessment
The evaluation must systematically address biological, psychological, and relational factors 2:
Endocrinologic Evaluation
- Measure morning serum total testosterone levels as the first-line laboratory test 1
- If total morning testosterone is <300 ng/dL, diagnose hypogonadism and consider testosterone therapy 1
- Screen for elevated prolactin levels, as hyperprolactinemia can cause low desire 2
- Assess for other endocrine disorders including thyroid dysfunction 2
Psychological and Relationship Assessment
- Screen for depression and anxiety disorders, as these are common contributors to HSDD 2, 3
- Evaluate relationship quality and partner dynamics, as interpersonal factors significantly impact sexual desire 2, 4
- Assess for performance anxiety and psychological distress using validated instruments 5
Medication Review
- Review all current medications for those that may suppress sexual desire 2
- Consider dose adjustment, replacement, or staged cessation of offending medications 1
Treatment Algorithm
First-Line: Lifestyle Modifications
All men should be counseled on risk factor modification regardless of other interventions 1:
- Smoking cessation
- Weight loss if overweight/obese
- Regular physical activity/aerobic exercise
- Limiting alcohol consumption
These modifications have demonstrated improvement in sexual function in multiple trials 1
Second-Line: Hormone Replacement (If Indicated)
For men with testosterone <300 ng/dL 1:
- Testosterone replacement therapy (intramuscular, transdermal, or oral) can relieve symptoms of low desire 1
- An RCT in men with testosterone <275 ng/dL demonstrated improvements in sexual function, desire, and activity with testosterone gel 1
- Critical caveat: Testosterone therapy is contraindicated in men with prostate cancer on active surveillance or androgen deprivation therapy 1
Concurrent: Psychotherapy and Counseling
Referral to mental health professionals with sexual health expertise should be considered for all men with HSDD 1:
- Psychotherapy addresses psychological barriers and inhibitions that interfere with sexual excitement 1
- Sex and couples therapy improves communication about sexual concerns and reduces performance anxiety 1
- Cognitive behavioral therapy and sexual skills training complement medical treatment effectively 1
- This is particularly important as a psychological overlay frequently exists in patients with sexual dysfunction 1
Treatment of Secondary Causes
When HSDD is secondary to identifiable causes 2:
- Depression/anxiety: Treat underlying psychiatric condition, though note that SSRIs may worsen sexual desire
- Relationship conflict: Couples therapy is essential
- Elevated prolactin: Treat hyperprolactinemia
- Medication-induced: Adjust or discontinue offending agents when possible
Important Clinical Considerations
Distinguishing HSDD from Other Sexual Dysfunctions
Men with HSDD demonstrate clinically meaningful differences from men without HSDD in sexual desire scores and sex-related distress, despite comparable testosterone levels, age, and comorbidities 5. The diagnosis requires both persistently low desire AND associated distress 2, 5.
Partner Involvement
Partner responses significantly impact sexual well-being in couples coping with HSDD 4:
- More facilitative (affectionate) partner responses are associated with greater sexual satisfaction for both partners 4
- Negative (critical) or avoidant partner responses are associated with lower sexual satisfaction 4
- Including partners in treatment discussions and therapy is beneficial
Common Pitfalls to Avoid
- Do not assume low desire is solely due to low testosterone—men with HSDD often have normal testosterone levels comparable to men without HSDD 5
- Do not overlook relationship factors—interpersonal dynamics are key to understanding and treating low desire 2, 4
- Do not prescribe PDE5 inhibitors for HSDD—these medications treat erectile dysfunction, not desire disorders, though they may be useful if comorbid ED exists 1
Multidimensional Treatment Planning
Treatment requires addressing underlying issues through a comprehensive plan 1: