What to Do About Your Insomnia
Start Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBT-I) immediately—this is the single most effective treatment with durable benefits that persist long after treatment ends, unlike medications which lose effectiveness when stopped. 1, 2
Why CBT-I Must Be Your First Step
The American College of Physicians issues a strong recommendation that all patients with chronic insomnia receive CBT-I as initial treatment, and the American Academy of Sleep Medicine designates it as the standard of care. 2 This isn't just a suggestion—CBT-I produces clinically meaningful improvements sustained for up to 2 years, while pharmacotherapy shows degradation of benefit after discontinuation. 2
The Core Components You Need to Implement
Sleep Restriction Therapy (most critical for your situation):
- Track your actual sleep time using a sleep log for 1-2 weeks 3, 4
- Limit your time in bed to match only your actual sleep duration—if you're sleeping 4 hours, only allow yourself 4 hours in bed 3, 4
- This consolidates sleep by enhancing sleep drive and is specifically effective for sleep maintenance problems 3
Stimulus Control Therapy:
- Go to bed only when genuinely sleepy, not just tired 3, 4
- If you cannot fall asleep within 20 minutes, get out of bed and return only when sleepy 3, 4
- Use your bed only for sleep and sex—no phone, TV, computer, eating, or "clock watching" 1, 3
- Maintain a consistent wake time every day regardless of how much you slept 3, 4
Cognitive Therapy:
- Address distorted beliefs about sleep, such as catastrophizing about consequences of poor sleep 1, 4
- Challenge the "trying hard" to fall asleep mentality, which creates a vicious cycle of arousal and frustration 1
Relaxation Training:
- Practice progressive muscle relaxation or other relaxation techniques 4
How to Access CBT-I
In-person, therapist-led programs are most beneficial and typically require 4-8 sessions over 6 weeks. 2 Digital CBT-I is an effective and scalable alternative when in-person therapy is unavailable. 2
When to Consider Medication (Only After CBT-I)
If CBT-I alone is insufficient after 2-4 weeks, consider adding pharmacological therapy while continuing CBT-I. 3, 4 The American Academy of Sleep Medicine and Annals of Internal Medicine recommend considering pharmacological options only after behavioral interventions have been unsuccessful. 3
First-line medication options:
- Short-intermediate acting benzodiazepine receptor agonists: zolpidem, eszopiclone, zaleplon, or temazepam 3, 4
- Ramelteon for patients preferring non-DEA-scheduled drugs or those with substance use history 4
Second-line options if first-line fails:
Critical Mistakes to Avoid
Do not use over-the-counter antihistamines (like diphenhydramine or doxylamine)—they cause anticholinergic effects, daytime sedation, and lack efficacy for chronic insomnia. 3, 4
Do not rely on melatonin—it has insufficient evidence to determine efficacy for chronic insomnia. 2
Do not start with medications—this violates guideline recommendations and deprives you of more effective, durable therapy. 2
Do not practice "sleep hygiene" alone—while avoiding caffeine after noon, limiting alcohol, and keeping your bedroom dark and cool are helpful, sleep hygiene education lacks efficacy as a single intervention. 3, 2
What Else to Evaluate
Before assuming primary insomnia, screen for underlying causes: 3
- Sleep apnea or restless legs syndrome
- Medication side effects (SSRIs, stimulants, decongestants can all cause insomnia) 1
- Medical conditions causing pain or nocturia 3
- Psychiatric conditions (depression, anxiety) 1
- Substance use (caffeine, alcohol, nicotine) 1
Your Treatment Timeline
Weeks 1-2: Begin CBT-I with sleep restriction and stimulus control, document sleep patterns using sleep logs. 3
Weeks 3-4: Continue CBT-I, add relaxation techniques if insufficient improvement. 3
Weeks 5-8: If still insufficient after 6-8 weeks of CBT-I, consider short-term pharmacological therapy while continuing behavioral interventions. 3
Ongoing: Reassess every few weeks initially to evaluate effectiveness, and attempt medication tapering after 4-8 weeks when sleep consolidates. 3, 4