Helping School-Age Children Understand and Participate in Managing Their Autism
School-age children with autism should be actively engaged in understanding their condition through developmentally appropriate visual supports, explicit teaching of self-advocacy skills, and structured participation in their educational planning, with the goal of maximizing their functional independence and quality of life. 1
Core Principles for Child Participation
Use Visual Communication Systems (VCS)
- Visual supports are essential tools that help children with ASD understand their condition, daily routines, and what to expect in various situations 1
- Create customized visual schedules using clip art or digital photography showing the child's daily activities, therapy sessions, and school routines 1
- Visual communication systems help children understand abstract concepts about their autism by breaking down information into concrete, visual representations 1
Explicit Teaching of Self-Understanding
- Children with fluent speech but impaired pragmatic skills require explicit teaching about social reciprocity and communication differences, even when their expressive language appears intact 1, 2
- Use social stories to explain autism-related challenges and provide acceptable responses to difficult situations, though these should focus on understanding rather than just behavior correction 1
- Teach children the "why" behind social interactions through approaches like "social thinking," which addresses the underlying social cognitive knowledge required for socialization 1
Age-Appropriate Participation Strategies
Educational Planning Involvement
- School-age children should participate in developing their Individualized Education Plan (IEP) to the extent their developmental level allows, with explicit description of services, goals, and objectives 1
- Break down participation into incremental steps, as children with ASD often benefit from having each step divided into smaller, manageable components 1
- Use visual schedules and verbal rehearsal with written and pictorial representations to help children understand their educational goals and therapy activities 1
Self-Advocacy Skill Development
- Teach children to recognize their own strengths and vulnerabilities through structured assessment discussions adapted to their comprehension level 1
- Social skills groups provide opportunities for school-age children to practice self-expression and learn to communicate their needs with peers and adults 1
- Peer network interventions ("circle of friends") help children understand how they interact differently and practice appropriate social communication in supportive contexts 1
Practical Implementation in School Settings
Environmental Modifications
- Anticipate transitions and build breaks into the schedule, as children with ASD often struggle with changing activities or settings 1
- Prepare children before new experiences by describing what will happen, the sequence of events, and how to handle stressful situations 1
- Use desensitization strategies broken down into several incremental, smaller steps, recognizing that it may take multiple attempts before children feel comfortable 1
Sensory and Occupational Therapy Integration
- Occupational therapy addresses executive function deficits and sensory-seeking behaviors common in autism, helping children understand their sensory needs 3
- Teach children to use "fidget toys" and other sensory tools to self-regulate, giving them concrete strategies they can understand and implement 1
- Sensory modulation techniques help children recognize when they need sensory input or breaks 3
Family Partnership in Child Understanding
Parent as Co-Therapist
- Active parent participation is essential, with parents trained to help their child understand autism in everyday contexts and generalize skills across different environments 1, 2
- Parents should receive training on how to explain autism to their child in developmentally appropriate ways that respect the child's perceptions and preferences 1
- Family involvement ensures that the child's understanding of their autism is consistent across home, school, and therapy settings 2
Cultural Sensitivity
- Consider the family's sociocultural beliefs when helping a child understand their autism, as cultural values affect how families discuss and frame the diagnosis 1
- Culturally appropriate materials should be developed that help children from diverse backgrounds understand their autism in ways that align with their family's values 1
Developmental Considerations
Cognitive and Communication Level
- Tailor explanations to the child's cognitive abilities, recognizing that children with higher baseline intellectual functioning typically demonstrate better understanding and skill acquisition 1
- For children with limited verbal abilities, use alternative communication modalities (augmentative and alternative communication systems) to help them express their understanding and needs 1, 3
- Functional communication training replaces challenging behaviors with appropriate communication, helping children understand they can express their needs effectively 3
Long-Term Engagement
- Maintain active involvement in treatment planning as the child's needs evolve, recognizing that for school-age children, behavioral issues and self-understanding typically become more prominent 1
- Regular reassessment ensures that the child's participation in their care remains developmentally appropriate as they mature 2
Common Pitfalls to Avoid
- Avoid assuming that verbal fluency equals understanding of social and emotional concepts; many school-age children with autism need explicit teaching despite good language skills 1, 2
- Don't rush the process—children with ASD may need multiple exposures and attempts before they can participate meaningfully in discussions about their condition 1
- Avoid one-size-fits-all approaches; each child's ability to understand and participate varies significantly based on their developmental level, cognitive abilities, and support needs 1