Best Medication for Premature Ejaculation
Daily paroxetine 10-40 mg is the single most effective pharmacological treatment for premature ejaculation, producing an 8.8-fold increase in ejaculatory latency—the strongest effect of any medication. 1
First-Line Treatment Recommendation
Start with daily paroxetine 10-20 mg as your first-choice medication. 1 The American Urological Association explicitly recommends daily SSRI therapy as the most effective pharmacological approach, with paroxetine demonstrating superior efficacy compared to all other SSRIs. 1
Alternative Daily SSRIs (if paroxetine is not tolerated or contraindicated):
All daily SSRIs provide substantially greater ejaculatory delay than on-demand dosing. 1, 2
On-Demand Treatment Options
If daily medication is unacceptable due to infrequent sexual activity or patient preference for situational dosing:
First Choice for On-Demand:
Dapoxetine 30-60 mg taken 1-3 hours before intercourse is specifically approved for PE in many countries (though not FDA-approved in the US). 1 It produces a 2.5-3.0-fold increase in IELT with the 30 mg dose and 3.0-fold with 60 mg. 1, 3, 4 In men with baseline IELT <30 seconds, dapoxetine 60 mg produces a 4.3-fold increase. 1
Critical limitation: Dapoxetine has 90% discontinuation rates at 2 years, mainly due to cost and disappointment with the on-demand nature. 1
Alternative On-Demand Options:
- Paroxetine 20 mg taken 3-4 hours before intercourse (less effective than daily dosing but still efficacious) 1
- Sertraline 50 mg taken 4-8 hours before intercourse (modestly efficacious but produces less delay than daily treatment) 2
- Topical lidocaine/prilocaine spray (EMA-approved formulation: lidocaine 150 mg/ml + prilocaine 50 mg/ml) increases IELT up to 6.3-fold over 3 months with minimal systemic effects 1, 5
Treatment Algorithm
Assess sexual activity frequency:
- Frequent sexual activity → Daily SSRI (paroxetine preferred)
- Infrequent sexual activity → On-demand dapoxetine or topical anesthetic 1
Screen for contraindications:
If erectile dysfunction coexists, treat ED first or concomitantly, as some acquired PE may be secondary to ED. 1 PDE5 inhibitors should not be prescribed alone for PE with normal erectile function. 1
For partial response to monotherapy:
Critical Safety Considerations
Common Side Effects (from FDA labels):
- Paroxetine: Ejaculatory disturbance (13-28%), decreased libido (6-15%), impotence (2-9%), nausea, dizziness 7
- Sertraline: Ejaculatory failure (17-21%), nausea (26-30%), diarrhea (18-24%), insomnia (16-28%) 8
Important Warnings:
- Never abruptly discontinue daily SSRIs—always taper to prevent SSRI withdrawal syndrome 2
- Approximately 40% of patients refuse or discontinue SSRI treatment within 12 months due to concerns about taking antidepressants, side effects, or cost 2, 6
- Serotonin syndrome risk when combining with other serotonergic medications 2
Topical Therapy for Patients Concerned About Systemic Effects
Topical lidocaine/prilocaine cream or spray provides moderate effectiveness with minimal systemic absorption. 1 This is the preferred option for patients who want to avoid systemic medication effects or have contraindications to SSRIs. 1
Adjunctive Psychological Therapy
Combine pharmacotherapy with psychological/behavioral therapy, as psychological factors (anxiety, depression, relationship issues) commonly coexist with PE and should be addressed. 1 Psychological therapy may be useful even when no clear psychological etiology is apparent. 1