What is the best approach to decrease anxiety in a 10-year-old girl undergoing surgery?

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Best Approach to Decrease Anxiety in a 10-Year-Old Girl Undergoing Surgery

Use a heart model to show her how the surgery will go (Option A) is the best approach for a 10-year-old child, as this age group is in the concrete operational stage and learns optimally through hands-on, visual demonstrations with tangible medical equipment that allows them to see, touch, and understand the procedure. 1

Developmental Rationale for This Age Group

A 10-year-old child is in the concrete operational period (7-11 years) of cognitive development, characterized by:

  • Logical thinking abilities with rudimentary understanding of cause and effect 1
  • Ability to understand internal body parts and body functions (e.g., can comprehend that the heart is a pump) 1
  • Learning through concrete, experiential methods rather than abstract verbal explanations alone 1
  • Fear of loss of body parts, disability, and loss of control - making visual demonstration particularly important to address these specific anxieties 1

Why Option A (Heart Model) is Superior

Hands-on demonstration with medical equipment is the gold standard for school-age children because:

  • School-age children benefit from play sessions with trained healthcare providers that offer simple explanations while allowing the child to see and handle medical equipment 1
  • This approach provides sensory information about what they will experience, which is critical for reducing anxiety 1
  • Children can process information and become familiar with equipment through tactile engagement 1
  • The concrete, visual nature addresses their developmental stage where learning is primarily experiential 1

Why Other Options Are Less Effective

Option B (Verbal Explanation Only)

  • Verbal information alone is insufficient for this age group 1
  • While simple, realistic language is important, it must be combined with visual/tactile demonstrations 1
  • Information processing is affected by anxiety, requiring ongoing validation of understanding through interactive methods 1

Option C (Book 2 Weeks Prior)

  • Timing is suboptimal: School-age children respond best when information is presented approximately 1 week before surgery, not 2 weeks 1
  • Written materials alone are less effective than hands-on demonstrations for this developmental stage 1
  • Books are useful as adjuncts but not primary interventions for concrete operational thinkers 1

Option D (Parents Talking About Importance)

  • This approach focuses on rationale rather than preparation, which doesn't address the child's anxiety 1
  • While parental involvement is crucial, parents should be coached on how to support the child rather than simply explaining importance 1
  • Parental anxiety can actually increase child stress if not properly managed 1

Optimal Implementation Strategy

The nurse should:

  • Schedule the demonstration approximately 1 week before surgery (optimal timing for this age) 1
  • Use the heart model with simple, child-sensitive language avoiding threatening medical terminology 1
  • Allow the child to handle the model and ask questions to validate understanding 1
  • Provide sensory information about what they will see, hear, and feel during the procedure 1
  • Include parents in the session so they can reinforce information and provide emotional support 1

Critical Pitfalls to Avoid

  • Don't rely solely on verbal explanations - this age requires concrete, hands-on learning 1
  • Avoid medical jargon that can be threatening or misinterpreted 1
  • Don't provide information too early (>2 weeks) or too late (day of surgery) 1
  • Never dismiss the child's fears or tell them how they "ought to feel" 2
  • Recognize that excessive parental reassurance can paradoxically increase child anxiety 1

References

Guideline

Guideline Directed Topic Overview

Dr.Oracle Medical Advisory Board & Editors, 2025

Guideline

Effective Communication Strategies for Pediatric Nurses

Praxis Medical Insights: Practical Summaries of Clinical Guidelines, 2025

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